Saturday, September 13, 2008

Homecoming 2008...




Ashley got asked to homecoming on Wednesday night. She was so happy. One of the nicest boys in our ward named Brandon asked her. Take a look at the pictures to see how he asked her. I was able to catch her reaction on video.... she was pretty excited.




Of course she said yes. She created a maze through his house with string and at the end of it was a plate of cookies with the little rock on it.  Along the maze she left little notes with all of her thoughts that went through her head when he asked her. It was cute.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Best and worst of the week...

Best:
1. Mitchell's soccer team is 2-0! Way to start the season!
2. Ashley bought some cowboy boots... she wore her cousins while we were in Idaho and decided she needed some. So we went to the "Boot Barn" last night. Who knew that the average price of cowboy boots is like $200! Luckily she found some on sale.
3. Kids had a good week at school.
4. Ashley got her texting back.
5. Mitchell's classes got changed so now he has the broadcasting class he wanted.
6. Tanner won a 5th grade dance off on Friday.

Worst:
1. John's bike accident
2. I didn't eat very good... 
3. Ashley has a sore throat.
4. My house is still dirty...
5. it's still too hot to enjoy my morning run. I guess I could get up earlier... but my body doesn't like that.

Best and Worst combined:
Worst: John went to Spokane without me :( He went for work. Best: He was able to go to a party that all of our friends were at. The party was called "Because Rik is still on the green side of the grass!!!!!" Rik was diagnosed with Lymphoma cancer 10 years ago this month and the doctors told him that he would live maybe 6 or 7 years. So his sweet wife Heidi had a celebration party for him. We love Rik and Heidi so much. They have taught us so much over the years as we have watched them struggle with this trial. They are rocks! Keep fighting Rik!









This is John and Rik when we were in Spokane last March.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Bad Dream?

I woke up to a phone call this morning and thought I was having a bad dream. Remember a few months ago I got woken up by a lady calling and telling me that she hit my husband while he was on a bike ride... well it happened again today. yes I am serious! This time it was John calling and he said he was fine, but could I come pick him up because his bike was broken...again. He was riding up Sahara, just past Hualuapi and a lady stopped at the end of her street and proceeded to turn left onto Sahara without looking to the left.... she hit the back tire of John's bike and sent him into the next lane. Luckily there were no cars coming. He has a little scrape on his arm is all, but his back tire is messed up. Of course I forgot my camera again! I pulled up to see 3 motorcycle police there and a helicopter flying above. I guess there wasn't much going on in Vegas this morning. John said I missed the 2 ambulances and one fire truck! Someone driving by must have called 911. The poor lady felt so bad. It was clearly her fault and she was so sorry.

I think I am going to get him a flashing neon light to put on his bike! he was wearing a bright red shirt, not sure how she didn't see him. Poor John... when i picked him up he said "aerobic exercise is overrated!" He has always been a weight lifter and has never been much into aerobic stuff... I guess he might need to join the gym and go to a spin class instead of outdoor riding!

Sunday, August 31, 2008

beach life...

We are down in sunny CA at the beach and having a wonderful time. My parents and my brother Scott and his wife Jenn came with us. We've been beach bumming it all weekend. Tanner asked if we could stay longer and skip school all week!

Here are a few pictures so far...
Grandpa always with a golf club!
Look at Tanner!
Tanner catching some waves!
John can't sit still at the beach! Has to make the biggest sand castle around!
Ashley and Jenn playing some games.
Grandpa and I caught the same wave!
BBQ dinner watching the sunset!
Beautiful sunset!!!!

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

ashley's corner II

as a result of the praises and compliments i've been bombarded with these past few weeks concerning "ashley's corner", i've decided to keep it coming. for the good of the people. haha just kidding. but seriously! 
so school started yesterday, and in the past 24 hours i've decided that being a senior is the greatest thing ever. we have block schedule at bonanza this year, and a senior can take a minimum of 4 classes, so for me that means 2 classes a day!! its beautiful. this year is going to be the best. 2 of my classes are way easy and 2 are AP, so its pretty well spread out. my favorite part is i get out at 9:55. hallelujah! my mom thinks its nuts haha but i rather enjoy it. i got a new job at a dry cleaners (dont worry everyone, i still work at farm basket) that starts at 1, so i get home eat some lunch, take a nap, do whatever i want and then go to work. the only thing i CANT do is text. i got it taken away. sad, i know. but believe it or not, im still living. the trick is i try to ignore the withdrawls and the pain in my heart that i am going through. 
other than work and starting school, not much has been going on at all. i got called to be on the seminary council, so i think that will be a lot of fun, i love everyone on it. kami has been gone for a week.. and it sure is weird not seeing her everyday :( alex leaves this thursday (in two days!! yikes!) and kristine leaves sometime next week. we've all shed tears and yes, it is going to be hard but i finally think everything will be fine. the more i talk to people about it, the more i realize that the situation isn't just my four best friends leaving me here all alone while they go to party at college. it will be hard for them too! they dont know anyone up there. look at kristine, shes going all the way up to idaho for who knows how long without a single person she knows. i suppose i was being a little selfish and bitter about being "alone" for my last year of highschool :) but they will be going through the same things too. we'll all be meeting new people and joining new groups this year. and the great thing is, as we're gaining all these new friends we will still have each other. i know we will probably never be as close as we have been these past 4 years.. but im just so grateful that they even came into my life. they have all helped me grow in so many countless ways and we've made each other who we are today. its hard for me to grasp the fact that we wont be seeing too much of each other anymore, but thank heavens for cell phones, right? fab 5 forever :) 


well thats pretty much all thats on my mind right now.. i've got some tivo-ed oprahs to watch so i will catch up with ya later. 
i'm out 
-ash

(that was for you cathi haha- IM OUT!)

Monday, August 25, 2008

It's your birthday, shout hooray!

Happy Birthday John!

My honey is 44 today! I have been lucky enough to spend 20 of those 44 years with him! He is the best thing in my life!

In celebration of his life... here are a few pictures of John growing up.Cute little guy!


Looks a lot like Mitchell hugh!



Handsome missionary....

This is the John I fell in love with at college!




John and I celebrated his Birthday Saturday night by going up to Tuacahn to see Les Miserables and we spent the night in St. George. The play was amazing. If you have a chance to go see it there, do! We've seen it before on a regular stage and it was wonderful, but there was something amazing about being outside. They shot cannons off during the war scene and shot fireworks into the sky.... and had horses onstage... so many things that you can't do in an inside theatre. It was a great weekend! Happy Birthday John!!! I love you!




 



Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Good Job Mitchell!!

Mitchell made the JV Soccer team at Bonanza!!!! YAH! He is very excited. He worked real hard all summer going to the intramural practices. It was hard to go in the Vegas heat... but it paid off. We'll keep you all updated on scores as the season gets going! Good job Mitch!

Weekend review...










We had a great trip last week. Had fun visiting family in Utah and Idaho. Wednesday night we headed up to Idaho Falls for our niece Samantha's wedding. The wedding was Thursday morning and it was beautiful. She looked beautiful and she married a great guy. It was so fun to see Grandma Barnes and 4 of John's 5 sisters.   









We just wish we could have spent more time with them! John had to work... how inconvenient!  Ashley & Tanner had a great time getting to know her "Idaho" cousins. We wish more cousins were able to be there... John's family is very spread out, so it's hard to get us all together. 

 










The reception was very nice. Unfortunately the winds picked up and we had to move everything inside at the last minute! Sam had planned on an outside reception and it was a real hard decision for her to move it in, but it was a good one. It was windy all night! Outside the church building in Hamer Idaho there is a huge lawn and it looked so pretty out there... luckily the church was right across the parking lot. The guys sure got a work out moving all the tables and chairs back and forth! Needless to say we were all very tired when it was over. But it was worth it! (Mitchell was at EFY. It was so strange to not have him there.)










We got back to Lehi Friday night after stopping to see my brothers new place in Pocatallo ID. Unfortunately he was having some nose surgery that day so we didn't get to see him. (no, he didn't get plastic surgery... although he has the longest nose in the family... we measured once)  Luckily a few of the kids were home and we got to see their new house. I wanted to see where they were living now... I like to have a visual picture of where people are.  We definitely want to go back soon and go to the hot springs with them. It looks like a great area and we are excited for their new adventure.

On our way out of town we stopped by our good friends house who just move up to Alpine Utah. Mitchell lived at the Zebe's on the weekends hanging out with Jake and Barbara was my YW secretary... we are going to miss them so much!! We wanted to see where they going to be. Their house is beautiful and they seem to be getting settled.

Saturday night we hurried home and John and I got tickets from his channel 8 rep to see Kenny G. He was amazing. It was out at Lake Las Vegas on the lawn and there was a full moon to the right of the stage and to the left was a huge lightening storm. It was so cool. And the music was awesome. He was a great performer! I would highly recommend seeing him if you can.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

What do you do in Utah?


1. IKEA
2. Family
Just kidding... we see family first and then IKEA...

The kids and I drove up to Utah on Saturday...We hung out at my brother Todd's house on Sunday evening. We were suppose to have a picnic but is was raining. We had fun watching the Olympics on his big projector screen and we caught up with cousins that came to visit.

Monday we dropped Mitchell and his friend Dylan off at EFY. They were pretty excited to go. Ashley was extremely upset that she didn't sign up again... oh well. We made her happy by picking up her good friend Leah and going to the mall and a movie. We saw Mama Mia. It was great.

This morning we started the day with a trip to IKEA! We even had breakfast there! I tried not to spend too much money! Then we went swimming with my sister in law at her parents pool. The kids had so much fun swimming together. They are all so cute! The girls LOVE Ashley!










Such cute little girls!










The boys exploring the pool...










Dallin & Brendon!

Sunday, August 3, 2008

Fighting for time...


Ashley and I are fighting over this book! I guess we should have bought 2 copies. Ashley and her girlfriends went our Friday night to a few of the book parties at Barnes & Noble and Borders Books. The parties were a "prom night" theme, so they got all dressed in their formals. They had a great time. I will try to get a picture from her camera and post it tomorrow. Luckily she sleeps in till 11:00 so morning will be my reading time!

Thursday, July 31, 2008

Strange....

I find it so strange that my body has adjusted to this desert heat. We went to dinner tonight at Bajio and they were closing for a private party so we had to take our food to go. So we decided to go to a park to eat it and I expected to be miserable at the park in 102 degree weather (at 7:00pm)... but we sat there and ate and it was very enjoyable. There was a slight breeze and we enjoyed our time at the park. The boys even played on the playground for a few minutes.... I sat there and said "this is so weird that I'm not dyeing out here." If someone would have told me 4 1/2 years ago that I would enjoy sitting outside in the summer, I would not have believed it! But I guess our bodies have adjusted to the heat. I am sitting in my house that is set to 78 degrees and my feet are freezing... crazy! 

Monday, July 28, 2008

F F F



Forced Family Fun as my nephew Curtis says. That's what we had this last weekend... a little FFF. That seems to be the only way we can get our kids to go do anything these days. Is it just my kids? I don't remember complaining so much when we went on family trips? Maybe my parents can correct me, but I enjoyed them. I remember them being really fun. We used to head to the Oregon coast or up to Mt. Rainier all the time...great memories. But lately with my kids, if it doesn't involve taking them to the mall or dinner, they would rather be with friends or watching TV. So, we told them that we were going to go to Dix's cabin, stop and see the Bergquists on the way and then Saturday we would walk around Zion and then go shopping at the outlets in St. George. They bought it! On the condition that they got enough time to visit the B's and shop. Little did they know, we planned to spend most of the day hiking around Zion. We really wanted to take Ashley and Mitchell on the hike that we did without them a few weeks before.

So, Friday we went up to Hurricane and stopped at the Bergquists/Armstrongs and had a great time. It was nice to see where they are living now. It ended up getting a little late while we were there so Mike invited us to stay the night. We were thrilled to spend a little more time with them and we would be closer to Zion in the morning. We had a nice evening visiting and catching up. Abby made crepes for breakfast, they were delicious.

After breakfast we took off for Zion and the kids complained the whole way there! Notice the happy smile on Ashley's face in the first picture of the slide show. The funny thing is, about 20 minutes into the hike Ashley said, "I'm only going to say this once, but this is really tight!" I actually had her repeat it and got it on video tape! We had a great time hiking up the Narrows. We didn't get as for as we did last time, but enjoyed it very much! We (except Ashley, she didn't want too) wore our swim suits this time so we weren't hiking is wet clothes. It made it easy for the boys to swim and play in the water.

By the end of the day, I would say that it wasn't Forced Family Fun anymore, it was just Family Fun! 

(the reason I played a Carpenters song on the slideshow is that Ashley & I love to listen to them in the car and John Hates it! It reminds me of my fun childhood trips, we always listened to them. For some reason John doesn't like them.... weird I know.... maybe his family road trips were really bad! haha JK. For the first time ever, he let Ashley and I play the whole Cd on the drive up without complaining. A historical moment in the Barnes family. So, the song is to remind me of that history making trip.)

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

I'm in trouble...

Oh my.... we bought an ice cream maker at Costco the other day and I think it's going to be very dangerous! Not good for someone trying to loose 20 pounds.... We just made a "cake batter" recipe that I found online and it tastes as good as Cold Stone! Check out this recipe.

If any of you have any low fat homemade ice cream recipes send them my way!

When does school start?????

That is the question of the day.... how many more days till school starts.... too many. My kids are bored, camp are over and they don't want to do anything I suggest..... that's all i will say or you might think i am a bad mom.

Monday, July 21, 2008

ashley's corner

hello world. since this blog is called "Barnes FAM", and i happen to be the most important part of the FAM, i might as well make a post. this is ashley. whats up? well.. today is quite an interesting day. i woke up about an hour ago, ready for a fun filled day of tanning and reading. what summer is all about right? wrong. instead i got bombarded with jobs. empty the dishwasher! dust the whole house! make me breakfast! and to top it all off, tanner is being a baby. big surprise. he is addicted to this stupid game on the internet and mitchell closed it so he was screaming and pouting forever. and then I get in trouble because i was laughing histerically hahaha. it was funny. whatever. but also my mom said we're going to help some lady. she was reading her blog and saw that she needed help so we're heading over there in about an hour. i am proud of my cute little mom who saw that there was service that could be done and she did all she could to get this ladys address and had to call like 4 different people. so props to her.
ALSO, i would like to inform everyone that the nordstrom anniversary sale is going on. and i highly reccomend going. if anyone sees an adorable pink and brown plaid coat.. tell my mom it was cute. she doesnt agree with me.
SO, today is my first official day off of grounding! yes, i was grounded for a week. im not sure if my mom wrote about that on the blog already but just a little recap.. while they were out of town i was put in charge. (good choice for them.. very smart) and i had 3 cars to drive. the ugly van, the hot fast luxurious lexus, or the painted silly stringed jacked up volvo. i was doing really good following the rules and one of them was DO NOT DRIVE THE LEXUS. and you know what? im used to not driving that car. so no biggie. THEN. the van got a flat tire. so my 3 choices was narrowed down to 2. (and might i add that unlike my previous 3 flat tires.. this one wasn't even my fault.. there was a fatty nail in the tire!) and i just cant handle that kind of temptation. so at first i just drove it a little bit. to drop mitch off at the zebes and whatnot. but then it became an every outing thing. and i should be rewarded for watching those two kids right? ha. yeah okay. i got a beating when my dad came home. ha just kidding. but the whole reason im even telling this story is so that i can share my favorite part!! my dad said i could pick him and my mom up in the lexus at the airport (question- if i can drive on the freeway to the airport in it, why cant i drive it around off the freeway? its safer right? stupid) so i did. and he drove back. mind you, while i was taking care of the lexus i got 0 tickets, 0 accidents, nothing! and on the way home, good ol' john ran into the garage door.. and got a huge dent in it!!!! hahahahahahhahahahha. i know right? hilarious! i am a better driver than him. i dont know why he doesnt trust me with his car.. i am an outstanding driver. :)
what else is going on? hmm.. my good friend travis came home after being at a wilderness camp for 42 days. i missed him a lot and its good to have him back.
i dont know what i have planned this week.. there are so many options seeing as i am no longer grounded. i thought i was going to go insane last week. it feels good to know that i can jump in my car and get outta here whenever i please :) and i also decided today that tanner needs a vacation. my parents had a week in dominican republic, mitchell was at scout camp all week, i went to girls camp, so we've all had fun summer activities. tanner? not so much. and i think its getting to him. he needs to get out of this house. make some friends or something. so if anyone is interesting in taking him in please give me a call haha!!
well, this is quite a long post. i'd say im done for the day.. i guess i should get up and get dressed. thats one of my favorite parts about summer. i change from my pjs to swimsuit and by the time i am done outback its time for the pjs again. hahaha. beautiful. well.. what can i say. thanks for reading. its been real. its been fun. its been real fun.

im out.
-ash

Sunday, July 20, 2008

mitch fall...


Here is the video of Mitchell falling at scout camp. I couldn't figure out how to turn it the right way... so tilt your head. OUCH!

Uncle Gary - it's not as bad as yours! Mitch is in your club now!

Happy Birthday Allison



This is John. Just wanted to post that Allison celebrated a birthday this week--July 14. We were still adjusting to getting back to reality after a week in paradise. The kids bought her the coolest thing--a clear glass block that has a photo of them etched into it. It's a beautiful thing.... for a beautiful woman. How thoughtful of them. Happy birthday to such a wonderful woman. She brings joy and happiness wherever she goes. She's always nice to everyone and never says an unkind word. It was a nice day to celebrate her birthday. Happy Birthday honey. Love you.

Saturday, July 19, 2008

fabulous find! and baby-sitting...



We were at Target last night and look what they had in the dollar section! I bought 2 pair! I LOVE sweetarts... possibly my number one candy choice, but that is hard to narrow down. I have a fascination with all sorts of candy. I've always wanted to make a scrapbook on my favorite candies and why I like them and how i like to eat them...some candies I like to sort by color and some I like to eat the edge first... like a Reeses. yummmm. (okay this is ashley now and to be honest im a little concerned that my mom wont have any friends after they read this blog. so please just forget about this sad description of her life and move on with your day :) thanks. peace and love. )

So my daughter thinks I am a little strange... but I really do have enough information in my head that would make a really interesting scrapbook. Like when I see certain candy it takes me back in time to riding my bike through the cemetery to the grocery store to buy all the candy my $ could afford. I bet my grandkids would find that interesting some day.


Anyway... Mitchell made it home from scout camp... he had a little fall down a cliff that he was supposed to jump off into a pool of water. I guess someone has it on video... I'm anxious to see it. But his OK. Luckily it happened on the last day of hiking. He's a bit sore and scraped up.

We are baby-sitting my brothers dog this weekend. We were a bit nervous because we aren't really dog people. But so far so good.... The kids are loving him! We found out that he really likes socks! and his mouth is VERY strong... hard and scarey to get anything out!

Thursday, July 17, 2008

boys at camp....


It's camp time for the boys this week. Mitchell is at Scout camp up in Utah at Del Webb. They are hiking about 10 miles everyday... sounds like so much fun... not.... I hope he is having a good time. They were supposed to get rained on... hopefully it hasn't been too much.

Tanner went to "Apple Camp" on Tuesday and Thursday. He and Jonah Vance went down to the Apple store and took classes on iMovie and Presentations. They had a good time. The guys teaching the classes were fun to watch. You could tell they enjoyed teaching the kids. I expect Tanner to get all our video's organized now!

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Dominican Republic

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John and I celebrated out 20th wedding anniversary on July 8th. We wanted to do something really fun for this big year, we looked around and decided on the Dominican Republic. We wanted to go somewhere tropical and not too expensive.... and it fit the description. We flew there on John's frequent flyer miles and found a nice all inclusive resort. It was called the Catalonia Bavaro Royal Resort. We learned that 5 star resorts in 3rd world countries aren't quite the same as the US standard.... We really liked the "all inclusive" style of traveling. It was so nice to not worry about how much dinner or lunch was going to cost and it wasn't hard to decide where to go. They had several restaurants to pick from and always had a buffet open. We were never hungry... we ate way too much!!! We loved a little ice cream/crepe place! Went there almost every night.... even after having dessert with dinner...

It was weird to be the minority there. There were very few Americans. We only met about 5 couples from the US and few others that spoke English that were from Canada. Most of the tourist there are from Germany, Spain and Canada. When you walked in a restaurant they asked what language you wanted your menu in. The staff did a pretty good job at understanding us, but there were a few times that we wished we spoke spanish! especially when ordering drinks, we hoped they understood the "no alcohol" part! We pretty much stuck to diet pepsi and bottled water.

We left on Sunday night and flew all night and arrived Monday afternoon... luckily we were able to upgrade to first class! We were spoiled. We checked in and headed for the beach. It was beautiful! The water was warm and clear.... paradise. Our only two complaints were that in the afternoon as the tide came in, there was some seaweed that washed on shore...not terrible but not pretty. The 2nd complaint was that there are mostly european tourist there, which meant lots of topless sunbathers! That is so strange... I don't understand that one. We had to strategically find our beach chairs each day, by looking around and seeing where the old ladies were. It was mostly older Europeans... not the young pretty ones. which was good i guess. Poor John.... had to close his eyes a lot. We had codes, like don't look at 3:00... it was funny.

We woke up everyday and had a nice breakfast and then went to the beach. We'd swim, snorkel, go kayaking and just sit and read. well, one of us read... the other can't sit still much. He actually did pretty good and relaxed a lot. We did one excursion and went snorkeling. They took us out to the reef. It was beautiful, I've never seen such pretty coral. But the snorkeling is much better in Hawaii. We'd have lunch by the pool and head back to the beach. Then in the early evening we'd end up at the pool and then go in and get ready for dinner. We repeated this everyday! Sleep, eat, beach, eat, pool eat, sleep.... so fun!

We never left the resort... we heard it wasn't real safe and there was nothing close by. In the evenings they had little shows and dancing and stuff. Friday night was Dominican Night and they had vendors come in and sell stuff. It was the same things at every booth... not much to pick from. And they were pretty hard core salesmen. Not my kind of shopping.

We were so sad to go home on Saturday! We could have stayed a month! It was so relaxing and enjoyable. We had long talks and loved being together. John surprised me on our anniversary with a cd of a song he wrote and had recorded! He said he wrote a poem a year ago and after a while a melody came to his head, so he went to a recording studio and this guy helped in write the song out and put music to it. It was so beautiful. He'd like to fix it up before I post it on here, he wants to have the guy add some more instruments to it. I loved it!

We came home to the kids safe and sound! They even had the house clean!